Proverbs 11:29 (ESV)

29 Whoever troubles his own household will inherit the wind, and the fool will be servant to the wise of heart.

This verse warns us not to take our frustration out on our family, frustrations which are caused by our own cowardice, indolence, and irresponsibility. We should avoid abusing or neglecting our families, because even the love of family can be depleted. Then we may find our household empty, except for the windy rages of our own bitterness. Nor should we slip into foolishness, otherwise we will find ourselves turning into slaves. Our calling is to serve responsibly and lovingly by God’s grace, thus establishing freedom and security in ourselves and in our homes, which will then be full of loving, supportive family members and blessed delight.