1. Matthew 7:12 (ESV)
  2. Exposition

What does it mean to do for others what you would have them do for you?

Matthew 7:12 (ESV)

12 “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.

Many interpreters understand this phrase to be a summary of all that Jesus has said in the body of his sermon (Matthew 5:21–7:11). Equivalent to loving your neighbour as yourself (Matthew 22:36–40), it is a summary statement of what is taught in the Law and Prophets regarding the obedience that God expects of his people.1 In context, however, it refers most specifically to the behaviour of Christians towards one another in the faith community when they are bothered by a fault or failing of another believer. They are to treat that believer in the same way that they would want to be treated. This means refraining from hasty, self-righteous judgment and criticism (Matthew 7:1); not giving advice with a holier-than-thou attitude (Matthew 7:2); reflecting on personal shortcomings and failures before commenting on the failures of others (Matthew 7:3–4); trying to overcome and rectify your failings (Matthew 7:5); making sure you correct a fellow believer in gentleness rather than chasing them away (Matthew 7:6); and praying that God would change both us and them (Matthew 7:7–11). In short, when it comes to correcting and rebuking, the way which we would like to be treated is the way we must treat others.2 Of course, this specific application also has a more general one and it extends beyond the church community into the wider social context.